Friday, August 9, 2013

Valid Feelings

I believe that a person's feeling are always valid.

Why you ask? What if….?

Yes I would reply to whatever crazy situation you could throw at me. Yes. I still believe that a person's feelings are always valid. Because it is your first response to a situation. You have no control over you feeling until you have a conscience effort to redirect them. And that can be an uphill battle. 

But once you have a feeling what you do with that feeling shows your character. And that is what makes you-you. Not the feeling. The actions that follow that those feelings make you-you.

Maybe the feeling is anger. Letting that anger hurt others, not good character. Finding healthy outlets for that anger, good character. Liking someone you shouldn't. Happens. (stupid chemistry and hormones) But what you do with those feeling, character.


Make sense. Maybe. Maybe not. But just try and take sometime to think about it at least.

1 comment:

  1. Before I read this I would have disagreed with you. but you convinced me

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